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People Pleasing Isn't Humility — Part 1 of 4

People pleasing isn't humility — it's idolatry dressed up as kindness. Every time you say yes when God said no, you're bowing to a smaller god.

By Claudine LaRovere

People Pleasing Isn't Humility — Part 1 of 4
People Pleasing Isn't Humility — Part 1 of 4

People pleasing isn't humility. It's idolatry dressed up as kindness.

Every time you say yes when God said no, you're bowing to a smaller god — the approval of people.

Every time you shrink to keep the peace, you're making someone else's comfort more important than your obedience.

Every time you betray your conviction to be liked, you've already chosen a master. And it isn't Him.

The enemy doesn't always come at you with obvious sin. Sometimes he comes wrapped in "don't make waves," "keep them happy," "just go along." He'll use your kindness against you. He'll twist your gentleness into silence. He'll convince you that fear is just being polite.

But Galatians 1:10 cuts straight through it: if I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.

You cannot serve two masters. You will either fear man or fear God. One of them has to lose.

Stop calling it peacekeeping. Call it what it is — a stronghold. And tear it down.


But how does a person end up here? In Part 2, we go back to where it starts.

🗡️ "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, of love, and of a sound mind." — 2 Timothy 1:7

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